fatigue

what is fatigue? to me...it isnt just about having insufficient sleep..it's about feeling tired emotionally as well...life is like playing stocks, it goes up and down up and down..smtimes when u are just feeling 'up',smthing has to happen and it goes down again..though things may not be happening on yourself..u can well be affected badly by people around you..it's not that u do not want to share the burden with them..but smtimes it's just too heavy for you to bear.

it hurts to see smone..who is actually greatly affected but still trying hard to put on a smile..perhaps they just dun want to let their problems affect the overall mood..i mean...why let others suffer when you're clearing yr own shit?it's true..but it's inevitable for others who care for you to feel sad as well...what are the best ways to help them without letting them feel it's just a form of sympathy?smtimes i wish i have the strength to do all i can to see them happy.but does it mean what goes ard comes ard for this instance?nah..i dun believe in it...though u may wan to others to make u happy just like what u had done for them...they may nt be able to do it..or maybe they had tried but u cant see it..well..everyone does things differently and see life in different perspective..

life is a game..but as long as u know u had tried your best in everything u do..i think it's more than enuff..no matter what the outcome is...the sweet memories are everlasting...and come on...you never know what is the outcome if u never try...u WONT gain anything AT ALL if u dun put in the wee bit of effort..but well..if anything fails to go the way u expected or wanted...the most impt thing is u've done yr best and u wun feel bad abt it isnt it...what u need is support from ppl ard you...when u feel tired..u have yr frens to motivate you..and you will be able to go further..let's tok about r/s...it take two hands to clap...if u are lost, yr partner will hold yr hands and lead u back to where u belong..if u meet any problems which will affect the whole r/s...for eg marriage...well...it shd be done in a way where both parties work out smthing to make it WORK.in life...there is nth u cannot do to make it better...it all depends if u wanna do it or nt...if u keep feeling u cannot do it....perhaps u shd realli think about what u have done the whole life...and hw u have walked thru half of yr life...it cannot be just by luck u led yr life smoothly...smtimes..u did put in effort without realising it...so when it's time for you to think hw u shd make things work...u have to realise you can just be laid back anymore...think....if u wan it to work...it will...it all depends on you...yr heart..what u wan..........

for you,
from me

**this is just a general topic,nt aiming at anyone**